Anger How It Works: How to Change Your Heart video audio notes. The temptation we look at today is anger. Has anyone ever been tempted by this? James connects this temptation with talking when we should be listening. Have you ever thought about it? People who become angry quickly and excessively are people who are quick to talk and slow to listen.
The Book of James – How Life Works
By Pastor Delbert Young
Anger How It Works: How to Change Your Heart
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Anger How It Works: How to Change Your Heart
Scriptures: James 1:19, James 1:20, Proverbs 29:20, Matthew 12:36, Matthew 12:37, James 1:20, James 1:21, James 1:21, James 1:21, James 1:21, James 1:22, James 1:23, James 1:24, James 1:25, James 1:25, James 1:26, Luke 6:46
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We are in our series on the book of James called How Life Works. Last time, we talked about how temptation works. We wrote down our temptations and nailed them to the cross. Some of you may wonder what happened to those papers. We burned them.
James continues discussing temptations. The temptation we examine today is anger. Has anyone ever been tempted by anger? Let’s put this another way: Has anyone ever not been angry? So, we gave in to the temptation. This should be a relevant lesson.
Let’s prepare our hearts to receive the word. The lesson will end with James telling us to accept the word which is able to save our souls. To change our souls, we must accept his word. Would you pray with me we receive a word that can save our souls? Let’s pray.
Anger How It Works sermon video audio notes
Okay, so how does anger work? Let’s read.
James 1:19 My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,
James 1:20 for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.
My dear brothers…
Before diving into how anger works, let’s talk briefly about how James approached teaching. James uses this phrase, or a similar phrase, more than fifteen times in this book. He desires to connect with the people. James was the brother of Jesus. He was an apostle. He was the senior leader of the church in Jerusalem. Though his book is often brutally pungent, he desires to connect with the people. He doesn’t come for his position of authority. He comes from his position as a fellow brother in Christ.
I strive to do this. I am much better now than I was, but I have so far to go. None of us have arrived, and projecting from a point of superiority is not good. Sometimes, I am confrontational from the pulpit, but my heart is really “My dear brothers and sisters.” I hope it comes across this way.
…take note of this…
James wanted us to make certain we understood this one. He said, “Take note here.” “Underline this.” “Don’t miss this.” “Take notes on this.”
James connects anger with talking when we should be listening. Have you ever thought about this? People who become angry quickly and excessively are quick to talk and slow to listen. Let’s look at a few scriptures to help us nail down what the Bible teaches about speaking in haste.
Anger How It Works sermon video audio notes
Proverbs 29:20 Do you see a man who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a fool than for him.
Now, let’s be fair. We are all guilty here. We have all spoken in haste when we should have listened. The Bible says the person who lashes out, talks in haste, and speaks in anger is given less hope than a fool. Ouch! Hope for what? The hope for an abundant life is damaged. The hope for friends is damaged. Even the hope for salvation is in jeopardy. Well, it’s what Jesus said.
Matthew 12:36 But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgment for every careless word they have spoken.
Matthew 12:37 For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.
The words we speak free us or condemn us. Jesus said severe judgment comes when we carelessly talk. This would mean we talk without caring what we say or whom we hurt. The Bible says this is foolish.
Have you ever been around people who stirred themselves to anger by talking and talking? They would not listen because they had to talk. Let’s make this a little more personal. Have you ever begun talking about something and then become increasingly upset as you keep talking? We may start speaking in a normal voice, but we intensify. The next thing we know, we are in full-blown anger and rage. Our hands are waving, and our voices are screaming.
Furthermore, our blood pressure goes up, and our faces become red. We say things we would never say in any other situation and hurt the ones we love. Furthermore, we damage walls and doors and sometimes people physically. Moreover, we damage their souls. Look at what James said.
Anger How It Works sermon video audio notes
James 1:20 for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.
It is impossible to give a picture of Jesus when we are angry. Anger and a righteous life are in direct opposition. We don’t project Christianity when we are angry. Our children do not see Jesus in us, and our spouse does not see Jesus in us. Also, our friends do not see Jesus in us. No one can see Jesus in us when we are angry. Anger affects the thought process, our health, and the outcome of life.
Cause of anger
James gives the cause of anger. It is fascinating to me.
James 1:21 Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you.
James connects moral problems with anger. Someone said, “Do what? What does my morality have to do with my anger? Wait just a minute!”
I didn’t say it; James did. The Bible says it. Let’s examine this verse in two parts.
James 1:21 Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent . . .
James links anger with “moral filth” and with “the evil that is so prevalent” with the conjunction “Therefore.” He says excessive anger comes from something morally wrong and evil. Excessive anger means something else is going on that is much more profound. Let’s take a moment here and ponder this. First, let’s get a working definition of the word moral. It means our personal principles of right and wrong. It means our standards of behavior and character are based on those principles. Simply put, morality refers to the rules by which we live our lives. People live their lives by different rules.
Anger How It Works sermon video audio notes
Have you ever seen someone who had consumed too much alcohol become excessively angry and mean? I have. This was the rule by which they lived their life. People doing drugs can often become irritable and angry. This was the rule by which they lived their life. I’ve seen one spouse in an adulterous relationship become extremely angry at the spouse who had been faithful. This was the rule by which they lived their life.
A child in rebellion will become angry at a loving parent. This is the rule by which they live their life. A person full of greed will become enraged if unable to gain. The rule of this life is greed. James says we should look deeper if dealing with prevalent excessive anger. There are some evil moral issues. There are some rules we need to change.
Solution:
The solution is in two parts. (1) YOU “get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent.” (2) We must “accept the word planted in” us.
James 1:21 Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent . . .
We will look at (1) first since it is in the part of James 1:21 we are now looking at. How do we “get rid of” this stuff? James said, YOU “get rid of” it. Change the rules. We get to do it. We change the moral code by which we live our lives. No one can change my code but me. No one can change your moral code but you. But how do we change it? Ahhh, this is the real solution.
James 1:21… and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you.
Getting rid of moral evil is not enough. We must also accept the word of God, which can save us. The Greek is soósai tás psuchás humoón, which is literally “save your souls.” The word we plant in us can literally save our souls! Do we believe this? Do Christians really believe this?
Anger How It Works sermon video audio notes
I will never forget the amazement I experienced just after I came to the Lord in 1978. I had this obsession to read the Bible. Amazingly, I actually believe it was reading the Bible in my bed one morning that made me decide to become a Christian. My amazement was about how little Christians knew about the Bible. We began going to Sunday school class, and within a few weeks, I was answering questions that believers who had been walking with the Lord for decades could not answer.
It amazed me. I remember one woman encouraging me and telling me to continue learning the word. It seemed strange to me. I thought this was what Christians were supposed to do.
My point is that we don’t believe the word will save our souls. If we did, we would be much more prolific about reading it. No wonder we struggle with trials, temptation, anger, and our tongues.
Getting rid of moral evil is not enough. The ultimate solution to excessive anger that comes from moral issues is accepting the word of God. That’s how anger works. James says the solution is to change the rules by which we live our lives to how the word of God says to live.
James 1:22-24
22 Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.
23 Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror
24 and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like.
James says, “Do not merely listen to the word and deceive yourselves. Do what it says.” Listening and reading are not enough. We must accept what we hear and do what we hear.
Anger How It Works sermon video audio notes
James used a mirror as a metaphor to describe how many of us react to the word. He said coming and listening to the word is like looking into a mirror and walking away, not doing anything about what he saw. What if a person looks into the mirror and sees the mess but forgets or neglects to adjust him or herself? They walk away, thinking they are looking okay. However, it’s a different story as soon as someone sees them. Others notice our mess. Concerning anger, we may forget the anger we expressed, but others see it.
Looking into a mirror is one of the first things I do every morning. If I didn’t, I would be a mess walking through life. I look intently into the mirror and change something about what I see. I do this every day. Every day, we need to look into the word of God and make as many adjustments as we possibly can.
James 1:25 But the man who looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it – he will be blessed in what he does.
I want to ask you a question. I want you to answer it in your heart. When you read the word, do you read a lot of “do this,” “do that,” or “do this other?” Or do you see things bringing you freedom if you do them? I try to find things that will make me free. Sometimes, it’s easy to do them. Sometimes, it isn’t easy to do them. I am still working on a bunch of them, but I do not see “do this,” “do that,” and “do the other.” That approach has worked for me. I am a blessed man. Let’s look at the verse one more time before closing.
James 1:25 But the man who looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it – he will be blessed in what he does.
The blessing comes from doing the word. Doing something about what we see in the mirror adjusts how we look to the best we can be. Adjusting our lives to the word will adapt our lives to the best they can be.
Anger How It Works sermon video audio notes
James says controlling anger will require two primary acts on our part. First, we must find a moral issue. Secondly, we must look intently into the word and do what it says. Then James repeats something about controlling our tongues when angry.
James 1:26 If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless.
I don’t think this verse needs any explanation. If I can’t control my tongue—what comes out of my mouth—my religious walk means nothing. Also, it is worthless, and I am deceiving myself and not dealing with my moral issues. So, I am not accepting the word of God, and I am a mess walking through life. Perhaps the words of Jesus will make sense here.
Luke 6:46 “Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say?
If I am not attempting to do what the word says, I am deceiving myself about Jesus being my Lord. I need to investigate my salvation. This is serious, but how horrible it would be to think I was just fine but wake up in hell.
James said the way anger works is by not listening, not controlling the tongue, and not accepting the word of God. The way to stop anger is to be slow to speak, quick to listen, and to accept the word of God. That’s how life works and that’s how anger works.
Anger How It Works: How to Change Your Heart
Anger How It Works: How to Change Your Heart
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