Book Of Numbers 10:30-11:6 – How to Conquer Discontentment: Paul warns believers to learn from Israel’s mistakes by not complaining, but instead faithfully following God’s presence and embracing change. True unity and progress require recognizing discontentment, seeking prayer, and allowing God to transform our attitudes. Rather than longing for the past or blaming circumstances, Scripture urges us to support one another, overcome negativity, and actively pursue solutions rooted in faith.
Book Of Numbers 10:30-11:6 – How to Conquer Discontentment
Book Of Numbers 10:30-11:6 – How to Conquer Discontentment
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Scriptures used in this lesson:
1 Corinthians 10:10-11, Numbers 10:29, Exodus 3:1, Numbers 10:30-32, Numbers 10:33, 1 Corinthians 11:1, 2 Thessalonians 3:7, Numbers 10:35-36, Numbers 11:1, Numbers 11:2-3, Numbers 11:4-6,
The Purpose of Biblical Examples
Paul, in 1 Corinthians 10:1-15, speaks about lessons from the book of Numbers. He teaches that these events are examples for Christians. Believers should not repeat Israel’s mistakes. Paul urges faithfulness to avoid spiritual failure.
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1 Corinthians 10:10-11
10 Neither murmur ye, as some of them also murmured, and were destroyed of the destroyer.
11 Now all these things happened unto them for ensamples: and they are written for our admonition, upon whom the ends of the world are come.
Warnings Against Murmuring
Today, we are focusing on 1 Corinthians 10:10-11. Paul teaches us “Neither murmur ye,” warning us not to complain as the Israelites did. Murmuring brought destruction for them, and Paul makes it clear that these stories are written for our example, not just for history. These warnings apply directly to us.
The events in the Old Testament are meant to teach us how to apply spiritual truths in our lives. In our notes, we are starting with Moses’ father-in-law, after the Israelites spent two years at Sinai.
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The Cloud Lifts: A Call to Move Forward
Now the cloud is lifting, signaling that God’s presence has moved. Sometimes when God’s presence lifts in our lives, it’s a cue to move forward. This isn’t a bad sign—it’s time for change and growth.
Spiritual Change Requires Action
When God’s presence isn’t felt, people often become unhappy or frustrated. But sometimes, this means God is telling us it’s time to make a change and move to the place he wants us to go. Last week, we talked about the cloud lifting from the camp, which everyone can see as a sign that it’s time to move forward.
Order and Purpose in the Journey
This situation can also occur in church—when things stop working, it is clear that change is needed. As the cloud lifts, the groups in Israel line up for their journey: Judah, Issachar, and Zebulun go first, followed by Gershom and Marari with the tabernacle parts. Then Reuben, Simeon, Gad, and the Kohathites carry the holy objects; scripture teaches that believers themselves are sacred objects, set apart by God.
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After them, the rest of the camp lines up. Today, Moses is preparing to speak to the man called his father-in-law. Jethro, Moses’ original father-in-law, has died—his name hasn’t appeared for some time. One of Jethro’s sons now serves as patriarch and is recognized as the new “father-in-law” and head of the family.
Numbers 10:29
29 And Moses said unto Hobab, the son of Raguel the Midianite, Moses’ father in law, We are journeying unto the place of which the LORD said, I will give it you: come thou with us, and we will do thee good: for the LORD hath spoken good concerning Israel.
Let’s look at Numbers 10, verse 29. And Moses said unto Hobab, the son of Rugel, the Midianite, Moses’ father-in-law. But that’s not his name, that’s not Moses’ father-in-law. Moses’ father-in-law’s name is not Hobab.
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Exodus 3:1
1 Now Moses kept the flock of Jethro his father in law, the priest of Midian: and he led the flock to the backside of the desert, and came to the mountain of God, even to Horeb.
If you look at Exodus 3:1, you will see that Moses kept the flocks of Jethro, his father-in-law. Now, either the scriptures are confused, or we’ve got a different person here.
Moses and Hobab: Family Leadership and Invitation
Jethro, Moses’ father-in-law, has died. The role of family leader has now passed to his son, Hobab. This was a blessing passed down from father to son. In biblical times, families would remain united under new leadership. Today, by contrast, families often argue over inheritances and then split apart.
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Biblical Patterns of Family Unity
The biblical pattern shows the importance of unity. When the blessing is passed down, the family remains close. God’s principle is that the mantle should move from one generation to the next to preserve family unity. Commentaries confirm this practice. Jethro is no longer mentioned after Exodus 18:27. Hobab, Moses’ brother-in-law, steps in as the patriarch and assumes the role of Moses’ father-in-law, following local custom.
And then in Wycliffe Bible commentary, page 126, it says this: the term Hutin, which is the Hebrew term that is used here for father-in-law, means any male relative by marriage, so that the words in Judges 4.11, which is another reference to this particular individual, might be translated Hobab, the brother-in-law.
The biblical custom was to retain most of the inheritance as a whole and pass it down intact. Family members would still benefit, but the main inheritance stayed in the family line. This allowed it to grow and prosper over generations. In contrast, today people often divide their inheritance and go their separate ways, sometimes losing what was gained.
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I hope that what we have accomplished in my own family can be passed on to the next generation. This applies to both material possessions and spiritual blessings. We should want the next generation to preserve and build upon what we gain, not dismantle it.
When Moses spoke to Hobab, he invited him to join the Israelites on their journey. He promised, “Come with us, and we will do you good, for God has spoken good things about Israel.” This is like when we invite people to church. We tell them God wants to bless them. If our church is blessed, those who come will be blessed too. This approach helps us witness to others, sharing God’s promises and inviting them to be part of what God is doing.
Numbers 10:30-32
30 And he said unto him, I will not go; but I will depart to mine own land, and to my kindred.
31 And he said, Leave us not, I pray thee; forasmuch as thou knowest how we are to encamp in the wilderness, and thou mayest be to us instead of eyes.
32 And it shall be, if thou go with us, yea, it shall be, that what goodness the LORD shall do unto us, the same will we do unto thee.
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In verse 30, Hobab tells Moses he doesn’t want to go. This is similar to when people decline an invitation to church, opting to stay home with their family on Sundays. It is a typical response, and many people want to be with their loved ones.
Moses doesn’t give up. He tells Hobab that the Israelites need him. Moses points out that Hobab possesses skills and knowledge that others lack. He could be “eyes” for the community, helping them find good places and new opportunities. In a church, we need others because everyone brings unique gifts.
So Moses shows two ways to invite someone. First, promise that God will bless them if they come. Second, let them know that the church or the group truly needs them and what they offer. Just as in the story, when people know they are wanted and needed, they will often accept the invitation and become part of the group. That’s what Hobab did—he decided to join them.
Hobab’s Decision and Its Lessons
As we read further into Judges and beyond, we see that Hobab truly did join the Israelites. He became a guide and helper for them in the wilderness. Moses said they needed Hobab to be “eyes” for the camp, to help them find their way.
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Some might wonder why they needed Hobab if the cloud—God’s presence—was leading them. Couldn’t God do it all alone? This is a profound lesson. Even with God’s guidance, we still need each other. Paul taught that the church is a body, and every member plays an important role. Hobab became like an “eye” for the Israelites, showing that all of us have something valuable to contribute.
No one enters the promise alone—we all need help. Even the spies Joshua sent out didn’t go alone. We journey together, fight together, and reach success by helping one another. God always uses people, like the Chobabs, to fulfill his plans. Everyone is needed in the body of Christ. You are needed, I am needed, and together we receive blessings and find success.
Numbers 10:33
33 And they departed from the mount of the LORD three days’ journey: and the ark of the covenant of the LORD went before them in the three days’ journey, to search out a resting place for them.
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The Israelites left the mountain and traveled for three days. They had been at Sinai for a long time, but now it was time to move. Most of their time was spent camping, not traveling, but when God’s presence moved, they had to move too—even if they preferred waiting or staying put.
It’s important to be ready when God moves. If you’re not paying attention, you might miss out on what God is doing. Every time the body of believers gathers, it’s a chance for God to move, so you need to be present.
Following God’s Presence
The Ark of the Covenant went ahead during the journey to find a resting place. It may seem confusing about who was leading—was it Hobab, the cloud, the Ark, Moses, or the elders? The answer is that everyone followed the cloud. The Ark and Hobab both followed the cloud, and so did the people. Sometimes it might look like they were following a person, but they were really following God’s presence.
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People will not keep following a leader who is not following God’s direction. If someone claims to lead but moves away from where God is going, others will not follow for long. In the example, if the cloud goes north but someone walks south, it’s obvious they are not following the cloud.
True Leadership Means Following God
The same is true spiritually. If a leader stops following God, people can sense when something is off compass. No matter your title—Moses, Hobab, or anyone else—if you are not guided by God, people will notice and not follow you. The focus is not on following a person, but on following God’s presence together. If a leader wanders from God’s path, it quickly becomes clear to everyone.
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1 Corinthians 11:1
1 Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ.
Paul said, “Follow me as I follow Christ.” He told people to follow him, but he was really following Christ. So, when they followed Paul, they were actually following Christ. Paul was watching for God’s direction, just like following the cloud in the Old Testament.
2 Thessalonians 3:7
7 For yourselves know how ye ought to follow us: for we behaved not ourselves disorderly among you;
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In 2 Thessalonians 3:7, Paul instructs people to follow him because he conducts himself appropriately. He points out that it’s okay to follow a leader who is following Jesus. If a leader strays from Jesus, people will notice and eventually stop following. God will show them if a leader is off track.
The Role of Spiritual Influence
We may think we are independent, but everyone follows someone. The people you spend time with have a significant influence on your life. To truly understand who you follow, look to those around you. If you want to change your life, spend time with different people.
The cloud, representing God’s presence, leads and provides for us. We studied previously how the cloud not only guides us, but also wants to dwell within us. As God’s people, we are his tabernacle. God wants his presence to come upon us and fill us.
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Acts chapter eight says the people received the word, but had not yet received the Holy Spirit. The Spirit had not come upon them. We can do many spiritual things, but until the Holy Spirit fills us, we have not fully experienced what God wants.
God desires to fill us completely with the Holy Spirit. The Bible says, “Be filled with the Spirit.” Blessings, prophecy, prayer, and worship are all good, but God wants to live inside us. He wants us to prepare a place for him to dwell within us.
Numbers 10:35-36
35 And it came to pass, when the ark set forward, that Moses said, Rise up, LORD, and let thine enemies be scattered; and let them that hate thee flee before thee.
36 And when it rested, he said, Return, O LORD, unto the many thousands of Israel.
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God’s Call to Battle and Dwelling
When the ark moved forward, Moses would call out, “Rise up, Lord, let your enemies be scattered.” Each morning during their journey, this was the war cry. Every evening, as they stopped to camp, Moses would say, “Return, O Lord, to the many thousands of Israel.” These two sayings shaped the people’s mindset.
God as Warrior and Protector
God wanted his people to see him as a warrior leading them. They were to believe the Lord would scatter their enemies. The church should also think of itself as God’s army, not as weak or defeated. Too often, the church waits for escape instead of rising up to fight spiritual battles. God prepares us to war, not to run away.
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God is both a warrior for his people and wants to live among them. Each morning brought a call to battle, and each evening was an invitation for God to dwell with his people. These are two leading roles of God—He leads us in victory and also desires to be close to us, loving and protecting his people.
God did not rapture the church in the wilderness to escape trouble. Instead, he used them to confront and destroy his enemies. Paul said these stories are for our example. There is no record of God removing them from battle—he prepared them to fight.
The Danger and Cycles of Complaining
In Numbers chapters 11 to 14, the people’s complaining steadily grew. Their murmuring became so strong that it finally kept them from entering the promised land. The key thing that hindered them was their constant complaining.
Moses could not stop the people from complaining. The elders could not stop it. Even God himself could not force them to stop murmuring—they had to choose to change. This might seem discouraging, but it actually shows that leaders aren’t to blame for people’s complaining. If someone has a complaining spirit, no one else can change it. They will continue to complain unless God delivers them, and unless they let go of it themselves. It is not the fault of Moses, the elders, or the leaders.
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As the people began their journey, a spirit of discontent grew among them. This attitude of complaining spread from chapter 11 through chapter 14. Nothing Moses did could stop it. The elders could not stop it, and neither could God. Only one thing could end the complaining—it had to come from within the people themselves.
Complaining became a trademark of God’s people in the wilderness. Even though they witnessed amazing miracles, left Egypt, and built the tabernacle, they continued to murmur. The lesson is clear: great experiences and miracles do not prevent a complaining spirit. True change must begin in the heart.
Numbers 11:1
1 And when the people complained, it displeased the LORD: and the LORD heard it; and his anger was kindled; and the fire of the LORD burnt among them, and consumed them that were in the uttermost parts of the camp.
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Complaining and Its Consequences
People do not need a real reason to complain. In Numbers 11:1, the Israelites complained simply out of habit, not about anything specific. Their murmuring displeased the Lord, and his anger was kindled against them. Sometimes people complain to complain.
Even with outstanding leadership like Moses, people still complained. Daily miracles did not stop their complaining. They received manna, quail, and water from a rock, but it made no difference. Even seeing God’s visible presence in the tabernacle did not stop the murmuring.
A church could experience God’s presence powerfully, but people would still find something to complain about. Movement, progress, and even God’s miracles do not stop discontentment. Complaining often occurs regardless of the circumstances.
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Instead of feeling discouraged about people complaining, I find encouragement. It’s clear that murmuring is part of human nature. People who have a habit of complaining will keep doing it unless God delivers them. They do not just murmur once or twice—they make it a pattern.
The only cure for murmuring is deliverance from God. In the wilderness, constant murmuring stopped the people from entering the promise. This is a serious lesson. Murmuring people do not receive what God has promised.
So, we must check our own attitude. If we notice a complaining spirit, we need to ask God to help and deliver us. God does not like murmuring, and it brings bad results. Paul warns in 1 Corinthians 10:10 not to complain, like those who were destroyed because of it.
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Numbers 11:1
1 And when the people complained, it displeased the LORD: and the LORD heard it; and his anger was kindled; and the fire of the LORD burnt among them, and consumed them that were in the uttermost parts of the camp.
When people complained, it displeased the Lord. That is the first thing complaining does—it makes God unhappy. God hears every word we say, even our murmuring and complaining about others. Sometimes we hope God doesn’t hear us, but He always does.
When the Israelites complained, God’s anger burned hot. He was not just a little upset—He was deeply angered. The fire of the Lord burned and consumed those even to the outer edges of the camp. This teaches that complainers often drift to the outside, away from the center or heart of the group. Murmuring can separate us from God and from others.
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Complaining reaches God, even if we think we’re just talking to a few people. Murmuring brings trouble and can be the cause of struggles and “fire” in our lives. We must ask God to help us recognize when we complain and seek his help to overcome it. Complaining not only affects us, but also displeases and angers God.
Numbers 11:2-3
2 And the people cried unto Moses; and when Moses prayed unto the LORD, the fire was quenched.
3 And he called the name of the place Taberah: because the fire of the LORD burnt among them.
The fire of the Lord burned among the people because of their murmuring. Many of the hardships and bad experiences in life can come from complaining. At first, only those on the outer edges of the camp suffered, but eventually, the whole group would be affected.
Murmuring destroys faith. It causes people to lose confidence and feel small and powerless. Those who complain tend to drift away to the outside, where they are more vulnerable to trouble.
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However, when Moses prayed, God’s anger stopped, and the fire was quenched. Prayer was the solution. We, too, can stop the adverse effects through prayer. A strong and consistent prayer life can ward off God’s anger and the problems that arise from murmuring. Prayer is powerful, but many people do not use it enough. Prayer can stop the fire and bring God’s help.
Leaders Respond to Complaints
Put yourself in the place of Moses. The people are complaining, and because of their murmuring, God sends fire to punish them. Even though they were murmuring about Moses, he still prayed for them when they asked for help. This is the proper response for a leader—to pray for those who are struggling, even if they have caused problems.
Moses prayed for God to heal, forgive, and restore the people. Most times, God responded by stopping the trouble and bringing help. However, even after receiving God’s mercy, the people often reverted to murmuring again.
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No matter what Moses, the elders, or even God did, the people continued to complain. They would receive help and blessing, but soon start murmuring again. This cycle happened repeatedly, just as it can happen in churches today. People complain, experience consequences, ask for prayer, get relief, and then complain again. This shows how deeply rooted murmuring can be.
Numbers 11:4-6
4 And the mixt multitude that was among them fell a lusting: and the children of Israel also wept again, and said, Who shall give us flesh to eat?
5 We remember the fish, which we did eat in Egypt freely; the cucumbers, and the melons, and the leeks, and the onions, and the garlick:
6 But now our soul is dried away: there is nothing at all, beside this manna, before our eyes.
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Verse four shows the people complaining again, this time about what they were being given to eat. They missed the food from Egypt—the fish, cucumbers, melons, leeks, onions, and garlic. Even before the effects of God’s judgment ended and the last funeral was over, they returned to murmuring.
This reveals that many do not take complaining seriously. Most people do not honestly believe that God judges murmuring today as He did then. If they did, they would be much more careful with their words and would avoid being close to complainers.
Complaints about their current situation led them to long for the “good old days” in Egypt, forgetting they were actually slaves suffering under harsh masters. Their memories of the past were distorted. Paul reminds us that these stories are given as examples. If we continue to complain, we will not enter into God’s promises but will remain stuck and face consequences. Complaining keeps us in the wilderness, longing for a past that was never as good as we imagine.
Many believers today look back and wish that things were like they were in the past. They remember Egypt and want some of its comforts, forgetting its pain. This reveals divided desires in God’s people—they want to follow God but also crave old pleasures.
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The Influence of the Mixed Multitude
The Bible talks about a mixed multitude among God’s people. These were not unbelievers, but rather those within the group who followed God. Yet, they acted like a “rabble,” which means a disorderly crowd often ready for trouble. Even God’s people can behave in this manner.
Complaining and unrest began with some members of the mixed group and then spread to the entire group. Just like leprosy, murmuring is contagious. It can affect the whole body of believers. The influence of complaining people can be powerful, and when left unchecked, it brings judgment on everyone.
It can be hard to know how to stop this pattern. Even leaders and God Himself do not always remove it. We all need to be cautious, because being around grumbling and negative people can also bring us down. It is a profound lesson for the whole church.
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It can be tough not to talk about others or complain when problems come up. People often ask why certain things happen or why others leave. This is something leaders struggle with on a regular basis. Different people react in opposite ways to the same teaching—some find it sweet, others do not like it at all. This shows that attitudes can vary widely, even within the same group.
Complaining and discontent are growing issues. Over the coming chapters, we’ll see this pattern escalate. Sometimes, nothing seems to change complainers—not even God’s judgment. This is a profound and even frightening truth. The problem of complaining becomes so big that even Moses grew frustrated. He ended up complaining to God about the people, feeling overwhelmed by their attitudes.
We will explore more lessons on this issue in the following passages. The story illustrates that complaining can impact everyone, including leaders. It creates frustration, tension, and even despair if it’s not overcome. The goal is to learn from these examples so that we can be a generation that breaks free from constant complaining.
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Even Moses, the pastor, reached a breaking point from all the complaining. He wished God would take his life, feeling utterly defeated. This shows that it wasn’t only the people who complained—leaders can become overwhelmed too. Still, no one entered the promised land—not even Moses.
Breaking the Cycle: Personal and Communal Solutions
The lesson asks us to reflect honestly. Does murmuring affect you? Could it really bring God’s anger? Do you genuinely believe the consequences are real? If you do, your actions will show it. Sometimes the things we cry about may be tied back to a spirit of complaining.
Think about the people you surround yourself with. Are they encouragers or complainers? We tend to become like those we spend time with. Remember, God hears every word, no matter how quietly we murmur. This study of Numbers shows that complaining can be a significant reason for missing out on God’s promises. We all need to recognize it in ourselves and pray for God’s help to change.
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One way to address murmuring is to acknowledge it gently when someone brings a complaint to you. Minister to their needs but also remind them not to keep murmuring. We must let the seriousness of murmuring become real to us. This attitude is what kept Israel from moving forward in chapter 14.
Someone asked if we should be optimistic about situations in conflict. Honest struggles are normal, but we need to determine whether we’re merely complaining or actively seeking solutions. Sometimes, wanting things “like they used to be” is really just more murmuring, not trusting that God is working.
God is in control of every situation, including the ones we don’t understand. He can raise things up or bring them down according to his plan. The important part is to trust him, work constructively, and avoid falling into a pattern of constant complaining.
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You may not like leaders, such as the president, but recognizing that God allowed them shows trust in God’s plan. Complaining about where God has placed us can actually show a lack of trust in Him. When we complain about our circumstances, we might be forgetting that God is in control.
Constructive Action Over Complaining
Some people talk about “constructive complaining.” Genuine constructive criticism leads to taking action to improve things, rather than merely complaining without effort to change. If you see something you dislike, work to make it better rather than just grumbling.
Applying Scripture for Real Change
The key is to read scripture, let God’s word speak to you, and apply the lessons to your own situation. Find ways to grow from the story instead of repeating the pattern of constant murmuring. God wants to reveal the truth to each of us, and these stories in the Bible serve as examples to help us live differently.
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If you only complain, you stay stuck and worried. Taking action to improve your situation is a creative and positive approach. In the story, people stood at their tents and complained, but they never attempted to improve the situation. They wanted meat, but didn’t do anything to get it—they just grumbled.
Complaining affects everyone, just like a disease. It spreads and brings down the whole group. Instead, we should focus on finding the good and thinking positively. Teach children and each other to look for solutions, not just problems.
Renewal and Transformation
Let these lessons renew your mind. Don’t be shaped by the world’s negative patterns. Instead, let God transform your thoughts, helping you to see and do what is good and positive. Take steps toward change instead of staying in a cycle of complaining.
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